In many ways, our sense of wellbeing, contentment, peace, wholeness, and freedom, rests on the foundation of who we believe ourselves to be. So, let’s explore that topic!
I struggle with this as well, mainly, as an enneagram 2, I acquire my worth in pleasing others…so when others are displeased with me (aka don’t like me) I suffer. Yet, I personally, do NOT like everyone…so, quite literally, it’s an impossible standard to live by! In the end, loving myself, as I am…while growing to be someone who leads with love, is the best I can do!
I struggle with this as well, mainly, as an enneagram 2, I acquire my worth in pleasing others…so when others are displeased with me (aka don’t like me) I suffer. Yet, I personally, do NOT like everyone…so, quite literally, it’s an impossible standard to live by! In the end, loving myself, as I am…while growing to be someone who leads with love, is the best I can do!
I hear you on your struggles, and thank you for sharing them with us, honey! The best you can do sounds pretty amazing to me!